Hello to all!!!!

I am confused about something.

Question:  When we die, swaruu said we go back to source (the ether), but we still keep our identity. We still keep our "I"....  Therefore, we can't be fully merged with source (there would be no concept of "I"' if we were fully merged with the source)

My question is what do we perceive as a soul when we die... and which beings can still see us and interact with us.    (assuming the person who dies is NOT from the immersion program)

Is there 2 realms: 1 physical realm where we are born in which ever density (range of frequency) we are align with, and 1 non-physical realm (the ether) where the soul goes back when we die from the physical realm (from which ever densities)? 

It makes no sense to me that there would be 2 realms.  There must be only 1 universe/realm, so when we die, our soul (point of attention consciousness) would perceive a range of frequencies that is a match to the soul?

For example: lets say a 3D physical human from earth dies, and his soul resonates with the rage of frequencies we would call 5D.... Does this mean that Swaruu and other 5D physical being (that were born in 5D) can see and interact with the soul of the dead 3D human?  How do they see them, they see them as physical being like all the other 5D physical beings?  But the dead human wasn't born into a 5D baby... so the soul appears as an adult in 5D without being born, having parents, etc...  ??

Or, when the 3D human dies, does the soul goes back to the much higher planes, like 6D, 7D, 8D... where you are not "born in physicality"...  and from there, the soul can chose to reincarnate in another 3D physical body... or a 5D physical body (or which ever body is best suited for the soul)

In this case, I don't understand what happens to the "bad people" like Hitler... when they die, their soul also goes back to the 6D, 7D, 8D...  If a being is so focus on control, manipulation and fear, I have a hard time believing their soul would go straight to the higher planes...

Also, Swaruu said that ghosts were disincarnated souls that could be trapped in the lower astrals (I assume that is our equivalent of 4D)... If this is true, then the souls DO perceive a range of frequency that could be equal to or lower than other 4D or 5D being that are bon in that range of frequency, like the ferries and 4D creatures, or the 5D taygetans.  So they would see each other??

This is really confusing to me...

I'm trying to understand the link between the ether and the physical side.  The Density frequencies on the physical side is very clear, but the back and forth, between life and death is confusing.   I'm assuming there is just 1 side here and it's all a matter of frequency perception (a point of attention).

Any light on this would be greatly appreciated.

Much love to all!!!