You are not logged in.

#26 2024-01-15 12:17:17

Outerspace
Moderator

Re: Space News 10, Galactic Federation Update -Mari Swaruu

Hi to everyone, no need to escalate please.

Today i use your note Jupiter smile

Moderator's Note:

To limit the personal conflicts in the forum, please do your best to follow this guideline:

"Making the discussion about the messenger and not the message is allowed only if it is done in a genuinely respectful manner to the messenger. If you find it hard to engage with a member in a genuinely respectful manner, then do your best to focus on the content of their posts and not make the discussion personal about the poster. And when you start getting into a personal conflict with another member, please remember to disengage before things escalate too much."


And also after disengaging and taking a break from each other, you can always repair the relationship and patch things up, when and if both parties are ready and feel like it.

Thank you.

Offline

#27 2024-01-15 12:40:42

Marak60
Member

Re: Space News 10, Galactic Federation Update -Mari Swaruu

Scott Summers wrote:
Marak60 wrote:
Scott Summers wrote:

Thank you, Marak. I rest my case, nothing further to add from me. smile

You rest your case on what exactly? That you use me as your example? OR is it about me getting pissed off, well of course I will because your poking the bear and basically saying I am a fear monger and disturbance in the force so to speak, that's really nice of you. So which part are you resting on?

Ok Marak, I’ll admit it was cheeky of me to post that. smile

I’ll be direct: Your emotions are getting the better of you. Your response reveals that you’re imploding under the weight of your emotions.

Let’s be clear: There’s nothing wrong with emotions. Emotions can be incredibly creative, or destructive, depending on how they’re channeled. It’s also ok to vent or release the emotions occasionally. IMO.

If we didn’t have emotions, we’d be... (I can’t seem to remember the race, but it rhymes with “Bebortans”).

You’re really not going to like this observation, but your enemies (the elite bullies) are only yourself pushed out.

Once you can face that, the elite bullies won’t bother you as much and you’ll find your own way to dissolve them. Then you will get less triggered by the nefarious plans they have for humanity.

But everyone has their own journey to take, so do whatever feels right for you.

No more from me on your posts. Cheers!

Ok... Thanks for that..:) Deal lets consider this all behind us! Thanks again.


Nikola Tesla...

"...If you want to find the secrets of the Universe, think in terms of energy, frequency and vibration..."

Offline

#28 2024-01-15 18:56:15

Jupiter 9
Moderator

Re: Space News 10, Galactic Federation Update -Mari Swaruu

Scott Summers wrote:
Marak60 wrote:
Scott Summers wrote:

Thank you, Marak. I rest my case, nothing further to add from me. smile

You rest your case on what exactly? That you use me as your example? OR is it about me getting pissed off, well of course I will because your poking the bear and basically saying I am a fear monger and disturbance in the force so to speak, that's really nice of you. So which part are you resting on?

Ok Marak, I’ll admit it was cheeky of me to post that. smile

I’ll be direct: Your emotions are getting the better of you. Your response reveals that you’re imploding under the weight of your emotions.

Let’s be clear: There’s nothing wrong with emotions. Emotions can be incredibly creative, or destructive, depending on how they’re channeled. It’s also ok to vent or release the emotions occasionally. IMO.

If we didn’t have emotions, we’d be... (I can’t seem to remember the race, but it rhymes with “Bebortans”).

You’re really not going to like this observation, but your enemies (the elite bullies) are only yourself pushed out.

Once you can face that, the elite bullies won’t bother you as much and you’ll find your own way to dissolve them. Then you will get less triggered by the nefarious plans they have for humanity.

But everyone has their own journey to take, so do whatever feels right for you.

No more from me on your posts. Cheers!

Scott I will be direct too, I too perceive a subtle passive aggressiveness in that comment that started this conflict and agree with Marak that it WAS personal(and I also perceive the same thing here by the way), and even if we read too much into it and misunderstood and it was not personal and it was simply a comment on the nature and quality of the posts, then you could have just clarified that he misunderstood what you said and leave it at that and skip the rest of the reply, where it is clear and not subtle that it is not just a comment but it is personal("Again, no one has asked you to stop posting your “fear porn”").

And this last reply is unacceptable and is taking it too far. This is a perfectly healthy emotional reaction by Marak. If you step on a cat's tail and the cats starts screaming and is pissed off, that is a perfectly healthy response and the cat is not crazy. I clearly see passive aggressiveness and patronizing and a condescending tone and attitude in your above replies and this is not the first time I see this in your posts, and this can't continue and needs to stop.

So Scott I am going to ask you to focus on the content of the posts and not make it personal about the poster, and discuss the messenger ONLY if you are able to do that in a genuinely respectful manner. If you are not able to do that in a respectful and non provocative way then simply don't say anything about the poster and comment only on the contents of the post.

And since I think that the above message from Outerspace and especially this message coming from me will most likely fall on deaf ears, I wanna make it crystal clear that if this continues you'll get one last warning and after that I will have no other choice but to suspend your account for a period of time.

Last edited by Jupiter 9 (2024-01-15 19:00:21)


"If you do feel pulled in, to save, protect, others, I would suggest to examine the energy of the “guardian” instead. Not the weaponized guardian, but the guardian like an impenetrable wall energy. No consequences to who tries to trespass, just an impossibility of getting through." - Inelia

Offline

#29 2024-01-15 19:53:26

Horton HaW
Member

Re: Space News 10, Galactic Federation Update -Mari Swaruu

Marak60 wrote:
Ariya wrote:

And I do see you have some high engagement on your posts. What I also see though, are many replies trying to steer the conversation towards more resilience and strength and away from catastrophe and victim mentality. Most people on this forum do not have our head in the sands, we understand the threats out there, but we are reframing them, shifting timelines, and working towards better outcomes. We are responsible for our life and we must never give away this power.

When I said head in a bucket I was not talking about you or other people in the forum I was aiming that comment directly at Scott, seemed like that was justified considering what started it all (I should have been clear, my bad!) I agree the conversations are steered that way, which is what I like about them, it helps me immensely to feel less overwhelmed by the entire world situation and that things are being done!   "reframing them, shifting timelines, and working towards better outcomes" this was my ENTIRE hope for anything I posted and unless you know what to re-frame etc.... you can't, it really is that simple. And just to confirm I never suggest at any point on giving away any personal power, in fact just the opposite!

Just a little note about me personally, as a child I did not have what you would call an ideal environment for a lot of it and as such at school I tended to be rather intolerant of bullies. I was never a bully myself but if a bully confronted me, either alone or in a group, it only ever happened once! Because they soon realized that if it came down to it they were not going to get away with it without a fight, most bullies can't take what they dish out by the way. So as it turned out I was left alone by them rather quickly, in fact a few ended up being very good friends. I still have a few hang ups with that mentality now and if I feel threatened or attacked in anyway, I have no intention of leaving it there. Which is why I push and post what I do. These elites are bullies and I for one do not intend to sit by on that front, and when I do post something it is for inspiration purposes to push forward or fight them nothing else.  When I say thing like 'Were is the support" or "how long will it take for action" etc.... NEVER ever think this is coming from a "victim" mentality in fact quite the opposite! Look at it like a rally call... because that is the energy behind it. When people finally know me I no longer need to point that out. But as has been pointed out many times by Mari and others that "words" are inefficient to truly convey the deeper meanings!

You bring up an interesting topic though Marak60. Often something looks like another, but is it really? I think a huge part of shadow work is discernment. Many unpleasant things are good to discuss if it empowers you ultimately. I understand why people get frustrated, as well. Clearly, where we are is not all love and light.


A person's a person, no matter how small.

Verum vident finem noctis - See the truth will end the night. ~Yazhi Swaruu

Offline

#30 2024-01-15 20:35:10

Marak60
Member

Re: Space News 10, Galactic Federation Update -Mari Swaruu

Horton HaW wrote:

You bring up an interesting topic though Marak60. Often something looks like another, but is it really? I think a huge part of shadow work is discernment. Many unpleasant things are good to discuss if it empowers you ultimately. I understand why people get frustrated, as well. Clearly, where we are is not all love and light.

Yes... I doubt that in this incarnation we can ever truly reach the point of love and light in a pure sense! It just seems to not be in our DNA...:) We can of course get close and I suppose a very small few can reach it? Thinking about it, frustration is probably one of my biggest (if not the biggest) demon I fight with every day.... And having the ability to talk about the issues does really help with that. It has probably been very obvious in my post that frustration is a factor in my comments, but it is refreshing to know there are those here who can see, appreciate and move past that and know I am just working through this life in the hope I can in someway make it a better place for all.... I have learned a lot here, more than I could ever have imagined!  I do not deliberately try to cause friction or fear and I am sorry to all those who have felt this from me. The problem is when you KNOW and can see what reality truly is and understand what is actually happening you then come to see your limitations and faults and this is what creates my frustration, because I desperately want to be so much more and no longer subject to these lower emotions that do nothing but drag you down and lower your vibration.  So until I can get better at that I can't guarantee I will not fail at in the future, but I am trying...:)


Nikola Tesla...

"...If you want to find the secrets of the Universe, think in terms of energy, frequency and vibration..."

Offline

#31 2024-01-16 03:03:01

Horton HaW
Member

Re: Space News 10, Galactic Federation Update -Mari Swaruu

Marak60 wrote:
Horton HaW wrote:

You bring up an interesting topic though Marak60. Often something looks like another, but is it really? I think a huge part of shadow work is discernment. Many unpleasant things are good to discuss if it empowers you ultimately. I understand why people get frustrated, as well. Clearly, where we are is not all love and light.

Yes... I doubt that in this incarnation we can ever truly reach the point of love and light in a pure sense! It just seems to not be in our DNA...:) We can of course get close and I suppose a very small few can reach it? Thinking about it, frustration is probably one of my biggest (if not the biggest) demon I fight with every day.... And having the ability to talk about the issues does really help with that. It has probably been very obvious in my post that frustration is a factor in my comments, but it is refreshing to know there are those here who can see, appreciate and move past that and know I am just working through this life in the hope I can in someway make it a better place for all.... I have learned a lot here, more than I could ever have imagined!  I do not deliberately try to cause friction or fear and I am sorry to all those who have felt this from me. The problem is when you KNOW and can see what reality truly is and understand what is actually happening you then come to see your limitations and faults and this is what creates my frustration, because I desperately want to be so much more and no longer subject to these lower emotions that do nothing but drag you down and lower your vibration.  So until I can get better at that I can't guarantee I will not fail at in the future, but I am trying...:)

An example of this was Mari's topic on the Astral. It is dark, but not being aware is to be in danger. So glad she did. I was able to find videos of the doctor I recalled who worked with this. Very interesting thread btw on that.
https://forum.swaruu.org/viewtopic.php?id=4064
Seriously, this place really is a crazy nut house. Lol Getting weirder all the time. Not being able to discuss so much of reality is frustrating.
It's more like an art. You learn to walk the fine line.

Last edited by Horton HaW (2024-01-16 04:51:47)


A person's a person, no matter how small.

Verum vident finem noctis - See the truth will end the night. ~Yazhi Swaruu

Offline

Board footer

Powered by FluxBB