@akos996 it seems to me that you have been paired with your mother for a very deep reason, and until you learn to love her, you may not find the love that you seek.

I would like to have a word with the smartasses who guide us into choosing a particular incarnation. I mean, why use the suffering since there are ways to learn without taking a beating? Honestly!

If you do not resolve the issue with your mother, you will attract the same type of relationships again and again. It would definitely come in different packages, but eventually you'll discover that every time it resembles the relationship with your mother. It's unfair to waste a lifetime trying to resolve these issues through relationships with other potential partners - unfair for you, but also unfair for the people who are on the journey with you. Yes, they too would match the resonance, otherwise they wouldn't choose the relationship, so don't worry about them not deserving the relationship.

It's easier to use metaphors, as this way you can apply your own thinking patterns, without being influenced by others, and you could make connections based on your unique experience.

Not metaphorically speaking, you are part of that family for a mathematically precise reason. I don't know how the oversoul calculates these formulas, but they somehow get it right, every single time. In the end, you do learn what you are supposed to learn and you do become a more beautiful being. So, why repeat the experience in different packages, since you are thrown in that situation already since birth? As it's family, you are in a safe setting already - meaning that your parents agreed to it, in order to show you something, to create the conditions for you to learn.

Also, you are not in a position to decide who is the better parent. The moment you put a label on someone, you consent to accumulate evil frequencies in your energy field. Just look at the society for a bit - do they resolve anything by putting labels on each other? Black vs white, jew versus christian, starseeds versus cabal... ok, aren't we grand? We are starseeds and "they" are cabal. And? What did we resolve with that? Do these labels offer a solution? Does it make them less evil, and does it make us efficient? No! It's because of an old saying: divide et impera ==> divisivenness leads to weakness. Therefore, to be strong, we need to accept and to transmute.

You must learn to transcend the relationship with both parents, and to detach from their pulling you into their dynamic. I'm using the word "dynamic", because the first rule is to stop judging, to stop putting labels.

When you don't have the knowledge about how to exorcise evil (usually this occurs because we can't see the bigger picture - by design), a good rule of thumb is to do the opposite. The reasoning is very simple: doing the same thing over and over, and expecting different results is the very definition of madness. So, the solution is to do the opposite.

You need a reason to love your mother, which is the opposite of not loving her. Right? Did you see one of those comedy scenes where a big guy puts their hand on a small guy's head who is trying to punch him? That's what you can do too with anyone who is trying to pull you down in their drama - you detach yourself from the situation, and let them blow as much steam as they want. Thank them for showing you their action, intentions, or whatever, and choose to do your own action which does not resonate with their action. This way you affirm your sovereignty, and you cultivate your own beneficial energy. You'll notice that by consciously choosing not to resonate, you'll charge your batteries, and if you match their resonance then you'll notice that you are drained of energy.

Let's look at possible reasons to stop judging your mother. When she was a little girl, did she think: I'll grow up and I'll make everyone miserable? No! Something triggered her choices in life. The first achievement would be to see her for what she represents: the divine feminine. That seed of divine feminine exists in her. All the manifestations that you don't like in her, give you the chance to learn how to forgive.

Resonating with the energy of forgiveness is the shortest way possible to raise a shield of such strength around you that will cut off all possible karmic links with parasites. Forgiveness does not mean to turn the other cheek. It means to emanate a field of love so strongly around you, that it becomes palpable. See what you accomplished with this? You give your mind a task, and the mind loves such challenges. Instead of resonating with the absurdity of the drama, it will do what it's designed to do: to materialise. The universe loves collaborating with the mind, and together they will materialise your intention. Therefore, forgiveness is pure, unconditional and boundless love. Love for the sake of love, not for the sake of someone or something.

Maybe that's what your father does, too, if he grasped the meaning of detachment. If not, then he does it out of love for you, for his self, or whatever motivates him. He understood that it's pointless to run from problems. Or, he's got this agreement,  for whatever reason, to facilitate this learning for you.

The worst thing you can do if you manage to learn your lesson is to fall into the temptation to direct the love that you manifest to someone in particular. No, love is like a perfume - whomever perceives it, so be it. But it's not your business to shove the divine fragrance in their nose. Love, just is, and it's infinite. Same as a perfume, if someone can perceive it or not, it will not diminish it, it will not change it.

A perfume is a resonance, isn't it? Let's assume that we are talking about a perfume that it's produced by your glands (this is actually a real thing - some people do emanate pleasant fragrances through the skin). If this is difficult for the mind to accept, then replace the word perfume with beauty. Yes, this would be the perfect notion for the mind's benefit to grasp: will a beautiful being cease to be beautiful when fauci opens his mouth to spew out the ridiculous lies and propaganda?

Beauty wins wars, if you think about it. Forgiveness does the same thing. Beauty and forgiveness have one attribute in comon: detachment. So, yeah, beauty is the easiest way for the mind to understand what purity means, from the perspective of any energy: it does not depend on attachments, and it's self-perpetuating. Love for the sake of love, forgiveness for the sake of forgiveness, and so on.

I hope these few scattered ideas will help. And no, you don't need to respond to the post out of politeness because I spent time writing - just test what resonates with you, and discard the rest. This matrix is what it is because of false authority. It's time to affirm our truth, in order to expose the tiny naked emperor.

There is a book by Hew Len and j.vitale  "zero limits" and although they speak about forgiveness, it may be helpful to replace this word with beauty. In a beautiful way, (pun intended), their writings will still make sense after swaping the forgiveness with "beauty" or with "love". I guess this is because the mechanism is the same for any energy (which is in fact a band of frequency), regardless of what this energy (/attribute) may be called: it's a recipe for detachment, and for applying the energy for the sake of its own frequency.

I wish people would see that the demented cult is encroaching on their homes and that they realised that the appropriate response is along the lines of what you described, Lyran.

Za'el is right! We did not come here to experience being doormats, we came here to experience the overthrowing of the cheeky cult criminals by none other than ourselves.

"Seems to me the Federation as vast and complex as it is,  is also within a Matrix of their own, only thing is its subtle and they go about totally unaware such is occurring"

This is correct. The so-called prime directive is a form of brainwashing which prevents the federation from taking action. The prime directive is a pompous way of expanding the law of "do no harm".

If the fed are incapable of grasping the fact that interference means harm (hence they need to be told specifically not to imterfere), then it means that they do not have the level of consciousness that they self-agrandisingly declare to have.

"Non-interference" means also "no overwriting of frequency". The fact that a 5 year old earth child can make this deduction but the fed cannot, it proves that the fed is less evolved than a 5 year old human.

Incidentally, the "awakened" community on earth are just as braindead as the fed, by simply not applying logic in order to expose the ridiculousness of the prime directive.

Therefore, why should we expect any help from the fed? It appears to me that the fed need help from those of us who can connect the dots.

However, there is a saying that states that a stupid person is not stupid enough if they don't take pride in their sorry state of consciousness. Fed is taking pride in their stupidity, therefore they are the perfect kind of stupid.

In conclusion, the federation desperately needs our help, not the other way around.

Aneeka's condition was caused by the realisation that they are in a matrix too and that due to the comfortable life, the whole civilisation refuse to contemplate the possibility that they are in as much trouble as the earth humans. In order to understand the magnitude of her frustration, we only need to look at what happens here on earth right now - you can demonstrate to a zombie that they are zombi till you are blue in the face, yet they refuse to see it because to them it would mean that their life is a lie. The same applies to the fed too. It is a waste of energy to try to convince them with words. Only through action they can see the truth. Our action. They are deep in lala land.

As you said, the answer is right there.

A safe bet is to do the opposite of what the parasites do, on the consideration that they invert everything. Apply invertion to the invertion - do the opposite of what parasites want you to do.

They "select" "leaders". The opposite of this would be that we welcome any one as councilor.

Yes, this opens the door for infiltration, however infiltrators can be eliminated easily by the next suggestion.

Parasites censor people. If you stop censoring people, and allow the crowd to freely express themselves, they will outvote the infiltrators. Just allow everyone to express their true self, and when a being pulls the opinion in a malefic direction, the real power of the group (their conjugated resonance) will imprint the general direction, through their Absolute right of self expression.